Relax... It's Just Sex (1998)

Director
P.J. Castellaneta

Main cast
Mitchell Anderson; Terrence 'T.C.' Carson; Seymour Cassel; Serena Scott Thomas; Jennifer Tilly

Genres
Comedy

Description
A mixed group of individuals - lesbian, gays, and heterosexuals who all frequent a local bar struggle to accept each others lifestyles. However when the two gays are attacked and fight back and ultimately rape one of their attackers, the group becomes strongly divided on their actions.


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